Our time in Beijing was very short-- just four days fit in between Bali and heading home to reality.
For me, the eternal optimist and finder of the bright side, it gave me the hardest experience of being in a culture completely distinct from my own.
Before coming, I had done a lot of research (far more than Singapore or Indonesia!), reading a book on present day China and the current culture. Here I will be honest: I have always felt a great deal of guilty feelings toward a possible trip to China. Truth... I never really wanted to come! I had heard many stories from friends and family ranging from "you'll learn a lot, but you won't exactly enjoy it" to "absolutely awful and disgusting... NEVER will I go back again."
But close mindedness to a country with over a billion people is absolutely against everything I stand for, so when Stacen found a deal that would give us a four day layover in Beijing, I took it as a perfect way to break every bad stereotype, and see magical China.
Here I will be honest again... These days sadly did no succeed in changing a lot of the negatives.
Because both the physical and human landscape is so removed from what I know, often i found myself WANTING to enjoy it, more than naturally enjoying it (except for our last perfect day, which was truly wonderful!)
Beijing is smoggy and gray. The language barrier is absolutely immense. People spit all the time-- in the streets, in the bathroom, (and to Kacie's horror!), even in restaurants. Nice ones.
People also push, shove, and cut lines.
Smiles don't seem to come naturally, and sadly we had a lot of experiences where no one was willing to help, but instead yelled at us. Restaurants have very stark lighting, and generally a meal is expected to last about 20 minutes. Max.
Growing up the Latino/American way, I have to be honest... Beijing was tough.
Latinos are happy, colorful, and generally believe that if your meal took less than two hours, you really rushed things.
Americans are friendly, helpful-- and so fantastically clean!!!
I am still uncomfortable with not having enjoyed my time here more, but I wanted to give you an honest take. We saw some amazing things, and had a great time-- because we as a group are happy people who really wanted to enjoy it.
There is of course much beauty here. The Great Wall. The palaces. Tea. Peking duck. Beautiful morning dancing in the Temple of Heaven.
But the divide between cultures and what is valued to me -- at least for now-- is still too uncomfortably big.
Enjoying durian ( a fruit that smells like a lovely mixture of trash and throw up!) at a night market.
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We are now on our way to DC, and will be putting some more stories and thoughts on our trip soon!!









































